buy her loads of clothes or other fucky stufff and definately choclates are must and just do this much and see her blushing and chirrping around u can even add some ballons and really tell her how good you feel when you are in her company infact even flaunt how beautiful she is looking etc etcNeed advice and tips!!! Girls preferably but guys with experience also?
Be yourself and not so nervous. It's just a girl. If you seem nervous or desperate it won't be as fun. Play video games if she likes those. Other than that talk to her. And actually listen. Seem interested without being over interested. You can play games at the mall too. Like it might sound kinda stupid but it's something that can be fun. Like an I spy game for funny things you see. Or try to find the ugliest shirt on the rack. Just something so you are talking and hanging out together without the pressure of so what do you like to do? It's always a little odd for a first date trying to figure out what to talk about that isn't all about yourself. It's almost like you're on trial. Just have fun..... Don't freak!!! And hey she must like you if she agreed to go with you so relax and do whatever you've been doing all along...and you know maybe 3 years ago she had other interests in mind. I wouldn't even ask about that becuase whatever it was you don't want to remind her about why she said no in the first place... It sounds like you really like her and maybe well a little over bearing which could have scared her. Girls like when they are liked and admired but in all honesty don't really like when a guy bends over backwards and treats perfectly. It can turn a girl off or take advantage of you instead. Sure open a door but don't run ahead of her to rush to that door. GOOD LUCK!!!
Be yourself. Have conversation. There is nothing worse than being with someone who has nothing to say, it's uncomfortable and boring. Ask her what her likes are, ask her about her. Don't spend the evening talking about you, you, you. People love to talk about themselves and girls/women like to have someone who listens. You have church and the youth group in common, talk about that.
Good luck and enjoy yourself.
Relax and be comfortable yourself. If your not there is no chance she will be. Be funny, keep her laughing and slide in compliments with the joking around to flirt. EYE CONTACT!! Dont look away when your talking to her, and smile. She shot you down once so don't overthink things she does. Just be cool and as comfortable as you would want her to be.
just talk to her like she was your friend no mentioning dates or anything ok that will work best
so sweet! tell her at some point, you're really happy she decided to hang out w/ u, take her/show her something you really like, or something you've been really wanting/ maybe you're saving for-something that shows your interest, and u could ask her to show something she really likes. if it's a pretty dress or clothing, tell her to try it on for you and if u wanna flirt w/ her, then tell her maybe one day u can buy it for her ;-) u guys could build and share a sundae in the food court. or if they have those build-a-bear stores, build one together and buy it, but a small bear, so its a souvenir. and if they have any kind of photo booth- take a gag reel, and in a pic, kiss her on the cheek =) good luck, and remember to just hav fun!
Put your arm around her and stuff like that.
well, congratulations on getting her to go! apparantly you have matured in the 3 years and she sees something there worth checking out.
when she sees something in the mall that is of interest to her, look at it with her, don't just want to go into the men's interest stores, buy her soda, something to eat...maybe a SMALL trinket of some kind...something small won't say that you are trying to buy her affection, but, will be a reminder to her when she looks at it that she had a good time...make it something she really likes there
laugh with her...don't overdo being funny, just giggle about things...finding humor breaks the ice quickly.
don't get 'handsy' with her...just don't do anything to seek attention from her, you were worthy enough to get the date, be worthy enough to get another!
u just do u. and dont worry bout being all weird n all just show her she should of said yes along time back
This is obvious but JUST BE YOURSELF. The reality is that she is going to be attracted to who you as a person and you should SHOW her the person that you really are. Don't try to act like someone you think she would like.....b/c you don't really know what she will like.
The most important things is to ask her questions about her and just show a genuine interest in getting to know her more or finding out about what she likes.
Being a gentlman (i.e. holding doors open, paying for the movie, etc) is also really important. Don't make lewd comments or be too gropey....respect is key!
Good luck on your date!
take her to the pet shop
be yourself around her. Dont act like you are going to fast, and defanitely do not ask her that! that would be bad...you can put your arm around her, or even hold hands. (that isnt going to fast). You can see a movie, and like i said put your arm around her, and be a gentlemen and buy the food!
Well honestly she said no for a reason three years ago. If you still want to be with her, you have to convince her that whatever she didn't like about you before isn't a problem now. Be polite to her. Keep your jokes clean, open the door for her, make her feel special. Girls only want to date a guy if that guy makes them feel really important and beautiful. Compliment her eyes, not her boobs, and treat her like a lady. If she tells you no again, simply accept no and find someone else that will like you as you are...then no more worries. Best of luck!
Insist that instead of holding hands, she holds your wein dog. Fondle her whenever possible, and use gods name in vain.
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