Any more advice/tips anyone can give me on approaching this girl at college?

I intend to talk to her tomorrow when we walk out of college. I will say that the Rock Workshop session we just did was great and that she sang really well (if she sings. She did last time, although she's meant to be keyboard). If she says yeah sarcastically or something, I'll say ';no i mean it, you have a good voice';.





What more do I need to know than: be confident, keep eye contact, be complimentive, polite, kind, and give interesting/intelligent answers, especially when it comes to short ';yes/no/cool/nice'; answers. Elaboration...





I thought next Wednesday (we do Rock Workshop every Wednesday) I could ask her if she's settling in ok, made any friends, and perhaps her msn.





QUESTIONS





1) Should I ask for her if I could hang with her at lunch, or will this embarrass her in front of her friends? If so, should I ask later when we're more familiar with each other? And should I go alone to her and her friends to hang out or should I bring my mate along just ot make it more comfortable (for her, not me. Perhaps yes if I don't know her much, and no if I hang out with her after being more aquainted with her?)





Any more general advice/tips on approaching, conversing and dating women etc would be appreciated. I've never done it before, am 17, and need practice.Any more advice/tips anyone can give me on approaching this girl at college?
Oh I envy your confidence! I think its great you will approach her for a lunch date, not many guys do that anymore...usually its the other way around. But yeah, the fact ur both shy makes it easier too.





I don't think she would be embarassed, but very flattered she is being asked on a date.





Good luck, hope lunch goes wel!!!