I Need Some Advice & Tips? Please & Thanks =]?

First of all incase your wondering why I asked in this catagory it's because I'm a bi dude plus your all the nicest people on here and give good answers.





Ok so this thursday I'm hanging out with my 2 besties Emily %26amp; Olivia. I am also hanging out with this chick I like named Colleen. I never really talked to her in person. I've seen her a few times cause she was with her best friend Felicia who I'm also friends with and was talking to. I never talked to her in person because I'm beyond uber shy %26amp; get butterflies around a person I like. If I do talk I giggle smile %26amp; say really ditzy things. I've talked to her alot online though. [she lives 3 hours away from me. she lives where I'll be moving this summer] Well I have to take that test you have to take before you start college at the college I'm going to which is in the town I'm moving to.Ok so anyways I told her I would be able to hangout at the mall all day thursday [test is friday but were going down thursday] and that I think she is cute and it would be rad and complete my life if she came. She responded with yes %26amp; smiley face.





Ok so I've only dated 1 person before and that was in 11th grade and it lasted 3 months [the chick broke my heart] then again she lived in same area I'm moving to and neither of us had cars or drove at the time so that was kinda hard to do a relationship that way. I'm uber uber uber uber shy and get wicked bad butterflies around a person I like. I am quiet smile %26amp; giggle. If I do talk it's always something ditzy dumb sounding. I want advice tips on how to deal with that problem and also how to impress her. [I know be myself but what are other ways I can impress her as well]





thanks =]I Need Some Advice %26amp; Tips? Please %26amp; Thanks =]?
Shy guys are cute! Be real even if you do blush whenever she'll look at you she'll think it's adorable!I Need Some Advice %26amp; Tips? Please %26amp; Thanks =]?
be yourself, be caring, try to act normal, don't act like your hitting on her or that you like her, just try to act like you normally would around a friend, don't try to impress her exactly but show that your caring and compassionate, i think that's about it ;) good luck.
You don't have to trick yourself into getting to know her better. That shyness of yours would probably be your beneficial factor instead of being a hinder.





Just......look at her when she talks and pay attention to what she is saying (Or at least, pretend like you are paying attention). You don't have to talk a lot, or do a lot.
Well the age difference isn't to bad.


And if you really like her then things will just take off:]


how to deal with shyness hmm...after a while of hanging


with her it should get better and shyness is great with a


girl its better then being an out there jerk.


Good luckkk!:]
Whatever you do, don't try and impress by being different to who you are, you can't be somebody else for long however good an actor you may be.


Be your normal self, try to stop worrying and feel more confident but not in an arrogant way and you will be fine.


I believe that if a relationship is going to work, it will, just keep that in mind and be friendly, honest and fun! Which I know is how you normally are!
Oh lovey!!!





I know you want tips but it sounds like she already likes you,, so you are half way there!





I really think at the moment that quiet awkward guys are in vogue.... so your in luck! Girls love it! I know my friends and I did when we were single. Like in Juno, the leading man, he is amazing, awkward, quirky etc. So I think it is ok if you say silly thing because that is who you are, If she is the kind of girl that ones an arrogant guy that is really confident and says and does the right things,, then she is not the one for you





Sorry it does not help too much... but trust me.. you are in luck!!!!