Sunday, December 27, 2009

I'm feeling really sad at the moment. Any tips or advice? Thankyou :(?

At my high school, I am not in my friends classes.











I am with someone who used to be a friend but who betrayed me so badly it is impossible to talk about and has left me miserable.











The girl I asked to hang out with me in class sat with the'friend' who betrayed me all day yesterday and I had to sit alone.





Plus so much more sadness.





I feel so sad and lonely.I'm feeling really sad at the moment. Any tips or advice? Thankyou :(?
the good news is: you're a kid. Honestly, I'm not trying to offend you. You'll get over all of this, we all did. Every one of us went through this when we were your age, but now we're 30, and we have a better perspective on what is what. So don't put so much emotional effort into it, just chill, bide your time, and eventually you'll be out of that s-hole. That's the best advice I can give you. Take it slow, take it deliberate, and move with caution. Trust no-one your own age, they will repeat what-ever you tell them NOT to repeat. So keep all secrets to yourself or find a pen-pal you can trust. This may seem a little strange: but sometimes be the best pen-pals are the ones who have an infinate amount of time to thing about your problem and come up with a solution. Maybe try a prison inmate who is in for life? That way he or her can 't come looking for you when they get out, because they won't be getting out. Scan the state prison websites until you find someone who has an intellligent look in their eye, but will be locked up for a very very long time. Most of these people know A LOT ABOUT LIFE AND HOW TO LIVE IT, PLUS YOU'D BE BENEFITING THEM. It's just an off-hand recommendation I came up with. You might meet someone you'd really like to know. Tell them your problems, open up slowly, and they'll tell you theirs. Slowly you'll get to know a new person who has already been through what you've been through and can give you advice. Don't let any guys take advantage of you and request ';naughty pics';, but you already know that. Sometimes the best advice comes from people who have nothing to do all day but to think about your problem and how to solve it. It's like a free secretary. (well, not completely free, I do recommend putting $20 a month on their ';books'; so they can buy stuff from the commisary, but prisons are filled with brilliant people. I've never been there, but I have been to county jail a couple of times and I've known people who were headed to prison who I didn't think should be, but I guess if you get caught, you do the time. -john in iowaI'm feeling really sad at the moment. Any tips or advice? Thankyou :(?
forgive and forget.


grow up, its high school.
It's cliche, but you'll be ok. I promise. High school is nothing but a phase. :)
sorry to hear that.....well kick her A** haha well u could just confront her about it.....
Listen, we have all been there. It will pass, trust me. You are in the worst part of it. Time always heals and you need to talk to other friends, or try to make new friends. You deserve better, and if you meet new friends you will feel better about yourself. The more friends you have, the better you will be. Good luck.
Don't focus on the negativity around you. Look within and see what you really want. Do something positive for yourself like go to the beach or river and watch the sunset. You could listen to music, take a bath, pick out a new outfit, go to the pet store and pet the puppies, go on a walk, give yourself a foot massage, draw a picture, look up funny videos online, plant a mini garden...
It'll be okay, try and find your favorite TV show to watch.


Helps me when i'm feeling down sometimes...
just ignore the sadness and have fun at school because if you dont you will regret not having fun in high school so just make some new friends and dont let people get to you
Why don't you sit and talk to your friend who is the girl and tell her how you feel and why you feel the way you feel they way you do towards the person that hurt you maybe she could help you resolve the problem or come up with a way to help you feel better about it.

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