Some advice/tips please?

Me and my boyfriend have been talking and decided that we're both ready to sleep with eachother (he's 20, soon to be 21 and im 18). We've had a steady relationship and we've both said it feels completely right. The only thing is, both of us are virgins lol, so naturally we're both a bit nervous and unsure about things. He's said he wants to make the night perfect and special for me, which is very sweet, but its not just about me its about him aswell. Therefore i'd like some advice so that i can make him happy and make sure things are right for him. I have a few questions lol;


1) Obviously we dont just dive straight in lol - any tips for setting a good atmosphere and starting it off?


2) Do i help guide him in? I know im going to be tight and it might be difficult for him


3) i dont wanna have 'dead fish syndrome' lol, so when he's on top of me, whats the best thing to do with my hands and knees etc?


4) Iv heard that some people bleed for a few hours when the hymen breaks, so do i need to take any pantie liners? and will it hurt when it is broken?


5) Is it expected for me to shave/wax down there? Or do most people have it natural?


6) I'm sure theres a few things iv forgotten to ask lol so any tips or advice on anything else would be appreciated ^_^ i'd especially like to know how to keep my boyfriend happy and enjoy himself. I know the first time wont be great, but I'd still like it to be as good as possible.





And yes, i know about contraception etc - so no worries there





Many thanks :)Some advice/tips please?
im glad your not one of these girls who claims they are ready for sex then tell us they are only 14! firstly congrats on waiting til your 18! i was 18 when i first slept with someone and im glad i waited!!





It will all come naturally, believe me! You think you will be just laying there while he does all the work, but once you both get in a rhythm you both like it will all be ok!





hes going to be just as nervous as you so dont feel embarrassed if you can help it!!





1. have some foreplay beforehand, kissing, stroking oral etc. that will set the mood.


2. probably helps to guide him in!


3. i think bringing your knees up when your lying down helps, stroke his back (my boyfriend likes me to drag my nails down his back - but i think this can wait a while between you two, he might not like it for the first time!)


4. I didnt bleed so i cant advise on that. ive heard its not much blood though! not all girls bleed on their first time!


5. it might help to have a tidy up!!








Just be calm and well done on contraception!! good luck and enjoy!! the first time might not be brilliant, but keep trying again and again, thats the fun part!!Some advice/tips please?
You tell him I love you very much, but I'm saving my self for marriage.
Be relaxed about the whole thing. It's never going to be perfect. In fact there will be embarrassing noises, awkward limbs, banging noses together, etc., etc.


This is all OK and perfectly normal. Have a laugh about it (laugh together 鈥?not at him obviously).





And remember, hell be nervous too, so let him know that he's doing OK.





There is no wrong way as long as you are enjoying yourselves. Experiment, have fun, relax.