Dating advice?! tips? help ?

Alright, so I just started college last September, and have found some difficulties in the dating department. I have a very heavy workload and do army ROTC, which when combined take up the majority of my time. The annoying thing is, in High School, girls would just come up to me and innitiate conversation, dancing, or a relationship. I literally had to do nothing but follow the old cliche...';be yourself,'; and girls would flock to me. I was even the prom king of our class! Unfortunately, after having started college, my ego has taken a hit or two, because no girls approach me, except for very creepy ones, and I find meeting new girls to be very difficult, since I don't have more than one class with any girl I know. At bars the music is blaring, they can't hear me, or they are dancing with their friends. This is kind of funny, but I really have no idea at ALL how to approach them in this setting. What can I do? I'm sure some of you have been in my situation, or have just plain succeded where I am failing. Please help!Dating advice?! tips? help ?
All I can say is I wish you luck and it will happen when's it going to happen. I am not one to give advice on this subject since I am a failure at it.Dating advice?! tips? help ?
Hi,





It is the 21st century and you are a college student. Get on the internet - it's the most common way to meet people.





You probably already have a facebook profile - it can be very effective. Another great sight is plentyoffish.com. It is completely free and will likely have hundreds of normal girls who live within 10 miles of you. The great thing about cyber dating is you can be very specific about the type of woman you would like to meet and avoid all the non starters and freaky chicks.





If you do join a dating service make sure you put some effort into your profile and don't be afraid to make the first move to contact interesting women. I have found that writing a profile that let's the woman know what an interesting, charming and FUNNY guy you are is much more effective than a profile that tells them the kind of woman you'd like to meet.





I was divorced with sole custody of three kids and had only 1 night a week where I was able to go out. I never had a problem arranging 2 or 3 coffee dates for my free evening each week and after a year of dating met the woman of my dreams. To top it off it was a lot of fun flirting online while the kids were in bed and being able to chat about my dates with my coworkers did a lot to help me rebuild my self esteem.
Ive been in this situation. In high school the girls are all over you and then in college its really hard to talk to a lot of girls. They either are with their friends or they already have a man. This is one of those things you really cant rush or try to hard. Finding a good girl or the right girl just doesn'tt come that easy. I'm not saying sit back and wait but if you want to approach a girl without being creepy, just be confident. Approach them cool and calm. Don'tt try to hard anddon'tt force yourself on them. Play it cool, act as if you are a friend. Develop a friendship, and see how that goes. But like i said walking up being confident and engaging simple conversation goes a long way. I never thought the confidence thing would work, but it does. One last thing, picking up girls at a bar is not good, unless you are looking for only one thing lol. Hope this helps bro.