This time, it is especially hard. I guess partly because there was no closure. Anyway, this week when I was starting to get into this hateful, resentment, moving on type place, I started to think I would be okay...but I realized that the happier I would feel, the harder it is. I get upset because I wish I was enjoying my happiness with him.
Help...advice, tips, thoughts, anything. (sigh)I need tips or advice in getting over a break up. I can usually handle this, but this time, I am hurting. : (?
it's always hard when you don't have that closure. a girl i know had her bf break up on the phone, and was really upset he didn't do it face to face. it took almost a month before they both sat down and talked about it all, and only really since then has she been able to move forward without him. Nail him down and talk about it. Don't make it look like you want to get back together, just make sure you both let it all go....I need tips or advice in getting over a break up. I can usually handle this, but this time, I am hurting. : (?
I'm sorry to hear about your heartache...breakups are never easy especially when you can't seem to get over them. Just remember you are a strong woman, and you sound caring, so there are plenty of fishes in the sea. I believe everything happens for a reason, and maybe there is something better for you out there. Just take this time to be you, be single, and be happy, hang out with friends, go grab dinners, and remember that time heals all wounds....meanwhile remember to smile!!! There is much more to smile about than to be upset!
hang in there, hang in there and hang in there. you know better than anyone else how your break up and healing process goes, right? think is as getting over one day is a minimal challenge. every one day would be whole long period, and before you notice, you're back to who you are.
Plan a trip for April or May and get the hell outa dodge! If I were you I'd go to San Diego, or even the Bahamas. Do something really nice for yourself and realize that you're going to find someone else in the future!! Someone that you will love and then marry!! You need to get this guy outa your coconut!! The more you dwell, the more you will have pain! Move on..please..its not a cliche it the answer!!!!
time heals all wounds.
you'll get through this, this one will just take a bit longer cuz of the no closure thing. actually, the first thing you should do is get closure..i would say by actually going up to him and asking if we're broken up, he might think you'r crazy, but it'll be good for you to hear it..i think.
Take it an hour at a time. For example: if you feel like crying, look @ the clock and say I'm not going to cry for 1 hour. Maybe you'll cry, and maybe you won't, but the point is that you went that whole hour without crying! Which is huge.
Write things down. Write him a letter %26amp; give him $hit for being such a coward. The best thing about this kind of letter is that you don't have to give it to him. Cuss, swear, call his manhood into question, tell him you've had better etc.
Don't feel guilty about having fun without him...get angry at him for not being there to share it with you.
DO NOT CALL HIM !!!
Make him wonder why you aren't calling him anymore.
This will kill you, but if/when you do see him, act like you would if he were just one of you guy pals. That'll make him stop and think.
You will get past this eventually, I promise. You'll be stronger for it. Good luck sweetie, I really feel your pain.
** Not all guys suck this bad **
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