Any tips and advice?

28 years old. Have been single for the last 8 months or so. Lost all my confidence after last relationship. Any tipsAny tips and advice?
ah, i am in the same boat, friend. i'm starting to date again after 18 months of nothing and don't know if i'm even able to stick it out for this one if it's heading anywhere. my only tip is for you to not let yourself scare yourself out of something which could be potentially great. i hate that feeling of lost confidence in something, but if we don't rely too heavily on it, it's easier to take when things fall through and easier to be less hard on ourselves. so try and take dating real lightly right now and only put full value on it when things are getting really serious.


don't lose all confidence! i love men, they don't have to be perfect or super confident, just themselves. you can be a bit unsure and it's fine.. it just might take you some time to get the hang of it. you are still young too, so don't give up. just remember that staying at home won't find you a great girl to hang out with so get outside and start showing your face.


god blessAny tips and advice?
Yea just get back out there and do what u need to do to get over it!!
Forget women for a while.


Take a class in something you REALLY like.


When your powers return, it'll happen all by itself.
Go out somewhere
gym get into shape and watch it all come back
Your in a minor slump thats all. Before the end of the summer you will be back in form
Regardless of whose fault or the circumstances that linger from your past relationship, you need to learn from past mistakes to be a better person than before and be reassured your next relationship will not suffer because of the last one...You are probably dwelling on the bad issues and painful results...its time to learn from this and look forward to a better, healthier love life than before...good luck.
go out and meet as many ladies as you can. You don't necessarily have to get into a deep relationship at first just talk to a lot and one pacific one might catch your attention :) hope i helped.
if you really think youre ready to date again start looking around. look confident. and regain your confidence. if you get rejected again just know that they weren't the one. the old saying really is true


it is better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all.


i know because i had to learn the same thing


good luck!
webdate.com is fun


beware the pervs in there,i met a girl in there and now we are happily together,


it takes a while but you will fit in. just be honest!!!
You shouldn't lose your confidence after 1 failed relationship. You may find what you're looking for if you just put yourself out there and make a move! Your dating life could take-off if you just gave it a push.





As they say, there are more fish in the sea. Who knows, maybe you'll find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. So, go for it! Don't look back! :)
be yourself, they will come.
masturbate! until you go blind then it dosen't matter who you talk too!
i am gay and 50 dont think i can help........ sorry
Start exercising, buy some new clothes and get out there and mingle. When the ladies start flirting, you will get it back.
get off the roof and dont jump





dont worry about... stats tell us that most relationship that start after the age of 26 or 27 last where ones that are of a yonuger age will not last.... so now is when you can find a good relationship... you are young and dont need to search very hard... im 38 right now and i find women my age much more interesting and exciting than the girls when i was 20, 25 or 28... women are like fine wine... the older the better... to a point LOL





so dont stress over it... you will find a lucky girl and it will work out just right... you dont want a serious relationship yet after a difficult break up... even thou it was 8 mths ago... go have some fun and fun will find you
get back out there theres all shapes and sizes of poon out
Women think confidence is sexy so I would work to get that back.
get yourself ready for love. get fit and get your head sorted out. try martial arts or something that will boost your confidence. feel good about you and she'll turn up..good luck sweetheart
just get back out there and do you. Go out there and think u are running this show. I am going through the same thing but I am still a little down but i'm using my own advice
take ur time.get over the old bs so u do not bring crappy baggage along.be honest, friendly but above all be urself. u do fine. good luck
do u stay in nigeria?
be confident in urself


make more friends


meet new people


don't be tensed


always be smiling


don't be sad always
do something you have never done before and just have fun...someone will come soon :)
find someone


weather its just a friend or more
juz be nice and be true to your self... work back for your confidence... its really important..
Stand tall and be proud dude. I am been single for a while also... and I keep my head held high.





Keep doing activities you enjoy doing and good things will come your way. I am being very patient and I know I will find that special girl...





Good luck
get drunk and go out and PARTY
Im 27 and have had my fair share of bad relationships... i spent two years single (through my own choice)


My advise is get back to being yourself... stop changing who you are to make other people happy!!! once you learn to love and respect yourself.. you will find true love... but not until...